If they go over the top when left on their own, they probably have what's commonly known as separation anxiety, which is also common in small children. Here are some ideas to help you both cope when you're away and make it easier.
What are the signs of Separation Anxiety?
If your dog is chewing, digging and scratching they are showing signs that they are trying to escape. While barking, pooping and peeing and excessive salivating are signs of fear and anxiety. These are the classic signs.
What causes Separation Anxiety?
It is usually caused by lack of proper training, starting with socialization which can cause a lack of confidence. It could also be due to mistreatment by a previous owner, extensive confinement or even too much bonding. To a lesser extent, it can be caused by genetics. But mostly it's due to something that you can control.
How can you treat Separation Anxiety?
You should start with crate training at an early age to prevent separation anxiety. Don't make a big deal about leaving. If you crate, simply put him in, say goodbye and leave, don't overdue the farewells. When you make leaving an issue you dog will worry about why all the affection suddenly disappeared.
Dogs are very perceptive and associate certain actions with certain outcomes. He may come to realize, like mine do, that when you put on your makeup, it usually means you're going somewhere else. This can make them anxious that you are going to be gone for a while.
Try to change your behaviors a bit, like putting on your makeup 20 minutes before you go. Or, when practical go outside as you would when you go to work, start the car and wait a few minutes, then come back in and give him a treat. Eventually he will associate the starting of your car with a benefit rather than a bad thing.
Make sure they have lots to do when you're gone. There are some great interactive dog toys available to keep him busy and give his mind a work out. Make sure he has some treats. The dog treat dispensers are great for this as you can regulate how many he has and it keeps him busy trying to get at them. When your dog knows that he has access to treats, he won't care so much that you're gone. Also leave on the TV or radio when you're gone. There are even special CDs you can get made especially for dogs, or you could record your own voice.
When you come home, try not to make a big deal out of being home until you let him outside to do his business. If he's in a crate, just let him out, don't go all gaga on him. If you make it a home coming party, he's going to learn that it's much more fun when you're home.
If you keep up with these exercises, the Separation Anxiety should lessen over time. If it doesn't, or if he becomes aggressive when you get home, you should check with your Vet or a professional trainer. Your vet, in extreme cases may prescribe a calming medication. I have also found that a small amount of Melatonin (a natural calming and sleeping aid for humans) works. You should check with your vet beforehand to get the correct amount to use.
Just remember that your dog wants your love and attention, so pay attention to his behavior and use the above training methods to help overcome his problems. If you think you need more training yourself on how to train your dog, I highly recommend you check out the DIY Dog Training program.
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